When No means Go : Talking CNC play
Workshop Description:
Let's talk about the fantasies we don't dare to speak of. CNC (consensual non-consent) is one of the most popular kinks, but it often causes internal conflict and self-shaming. As open-minded as we may be, there’s still prejudice against these desires and a constant clash between values, beliefs, and awareness - especially in the #METOO era - and fantasising about non-consensual sex and extreme sexual violence. Therefore, even though many kinksters would like to experience CNC play, they avoid mentioning it or even admitting it.
In this talk, Karen B. will share her experiences with CNC play, the dilemma that kept her from acting on her true passions - and how she managed to overcome it.
We will discuss:
Why are CNC and “rape” fantasies so common
How to deal constructively with internal conflicts
Role-playing and making fantasies come true
How to plan and prepare for an R-play
Things that can go wrong and red flags
How to after-care post an R-play
Q&A
*Please NOTE some people may find this workshop triggering due to its content.
Dresscode: Casual
Date & 13/10/2022 at 19:30
Location: OFFSIDE Pub & Whisky Bar Jülicher Str. 4, 13357 Berlin
Contribution Range: Little ranger 15€ / Power ranger 20€ / Supportive angel 25€
Karen B. is the editor-in-chief of the Israeli men's magazine Blazer, a feminist activist, community facilitator, and co-admin of a BDSM-oriented all-female Facebook group “Getting Out of the Vanilla”.