Wings for Desire
Expanding the conversation about Boundaries to Needs, Desires & Expectations.
Workshop Description:
In BDSM relationships, we tend to talk extensively about boundaries. boundaries and consent are the absolute foundation of a healthy BDSM relationship when both sides can feel safe to explore each other desires. But is it enough? does this mean we are content and satisfied within those boundaries?
In this workshop, we want to expand the conversation about boundaries to expectations, needs, and desires, and how to communicate them on “both sides of the whip”. We will challenge the misconception that communication of boundaries needs and desires are the responsibility of the submissive alone, and the importance of communicating the desires and needs of the dominant side as well as the submissive, And how to bring it down from the discussion level to the session level.
We will Discuss & Practice :
How do we ask the right questions?
What are the best setting and environments for managing these conversations?
What do we do when expectations are not met?
How can we coordinate expectations with our partners?
We will examine communication tools
Practice respectful non-judgmental communication exercises.
Q&A
Dresscode: Casual
Date & Time: 22.11.2022 at 19:30
Location: OFFSIDE Pub & Whisky Bar Jülicher Str. 4, 13357 Berlin
Contribution: Little ranger 10€ / Power ranger 20€ / Supportive angel 30€
About Yael:
Yael entered the world of BDSM almost 20 years ago by “accident” when she was 19 and found her calling. Yael is a Dominant non-monogamous bi-sexual who lives BDSM not only as a sexual identity but also as a key component in her lifestyle, relationship style, and community life. She is a life coach and a workshop facilitator in the Israeli BDSM community and for people with abnormal identities, she helps format identity, how to deal with self-judgment & society's judgment and prejudices, and the process of coming out of the closet (any closet).